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March 2020 by myrtol
I was there for a fundraiser. The mansion has lots of character, but the acoustics are not great. The food is average. Service was good.
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December 2019 by Danni M.
Miriam is the fairy godmother when it comes to dream weddings. She helped us put together the most beautiful wedding that was better than anything we've ever dreamt of. From the moment we pulled down the long driveway and saw the deer running through the fog on a rainy December day we knew the Bourne Mansion was magical. We met with Miriam and absolutely fell in love with the place. Everything from the planning and the meetings to the actual wedding day was so easy and flawless. The Bourne Mansion staff really knows what they are doing, everything is so professionally put together and they have it down to a fine science. Our wedding day was perfect, everything went so smooth and honestly was very stress free. The whole wedding process was stress free because we knew we were in good hands with a highly professional team. Our guest had an amazing time and we are being told it was hands down the best wedding most of our guest have been too. The attention to detail by Miriam was so impressive and Asia our bridal attendant was so kind and by our sides the whole night making sure things were just right. Our Matre d, Jake, was unbelievable!! He was the BEST! He was so on top of everything and he made us feel so special. Not only was he so attentive to us but to our parents and our bridal party as well. He was constantly checking in on them making sure everyone was ok and had a drink. He really made our night so special and was there for us for anything we needed. The Bourne Mansion team is truly the dream team and we feel so lucky to have started our marriage off in such a beautiful place surrounded by not only our friend and family but such amazing people from the Bourne Mansion team. If you are considering the Bourne Mansion look no further this is the place!!
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December 2019 by Stephanie R.
There is no place like the Bourne Mansion! Our wedding was on 11/30/19 and we still can't get over how perfect how wedding was. The Bourne Mansion was the first venue we looked, and after looking at about 15 other places - there was nothing that compared - the Bourne is magical! Miriam, the Director of Mansion sales was AMAZING to work with. Even from our first meeting she was giving us helpful ideas for the day of our wedding. She is very honest, gives sincere opinions from everything with the center pieces to food options to bathroom baskets, and even tells you when she doesn't think something is worth the money. The week before the wedding - I spoke to her almost every day going over everything to make sure we were covered - she went above and beyond to make herself available. Our Maitre D Steve made sure everything ran extremely smooth. He worked with all of our vendors so that everything was on time and most of all - that me and my husband were able to have fun! He really knows exactly what he is doing and really makes you feel special! The guests are still raving about how beautiful the mansion is and how amazing the food was! (The Filet Mignon with the gorgonzola crust was a huge crowd pleaser!) The ballroom really looks magical when it is all set up - me and my husband couldn't get over it! The high ceilings make the ballroom breathtaking! Miriam and Steve really make you feel like you are family and made the whole wedding process so fun for me and my husband and our families. They truly make the day so special for you. I would recommend the Bourne 1000%! I hope one day I'm able to be a guest at a wedding at the Bourne!!
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August 2019 by TK A.
We recently had our wedding there this past July and cannot say enough amazing things about Bourne Mansion. We booked our venue about two years in advance and had the most incredible experience the entire time. Miriam is the most amazing point of contact and always answers every email and phone cll promptly and makes you feel important. She is also helpful with any bridal needs (especially for those girls like me without a planner!). Steve we had read comes off mean but he is the complete opposite. He is so on top of every single part of the wedding. We had a guest break a glass and Steve had it cleaned up in under a minute. He also made sure we always ate and had drinks - which seems unimportant until that day! The venue and food we are still getting raving reviews from friends and family and had over 230 people. Cocktail hour and main courses alike were fabulous - no complaints at all. At the end of the night Steve even gave us flowers to bring home,main courses, and cookies! My husband and I will never be able to thank them enough for providing us with the wedding of our dreams.I could go on and on for hours about each and every perfect part of the wedding, but as someone who never writes reviews I wanted to make sure every bride knows this venue really is as magical as it seems.
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June 2019 by Lindsay S.
I truly cannot put into words how absolutely overjoyed my husband and I were that we picked the Bourne Mansion for our wedding! It was truly an experience like no other. When we first met Miriam she told us it was going to be a fairytale wedding and she was RIGHT. every. single. detail. was just perfect I couldn't ask for anything more. From the moment my husband and I arrived to take pictures with Steve greeting us at the entrance with two glasses of champagne to watching our guest's reactions as they walked into the venue, it was just out of this world. Working with Miriam leading up to our wedding was an absolute joy and she was so responsive and helpful throughout the entire process. Steve was a BLAST and kept the show running smoothly all day. If there were any issues behind the scenes we would have zero idea because Steve was on top of everything. The food was out of this world. Appetizers like chicken and waffles and mini lobster rolls completely knocked it out of the park and the dinner and drinks were just phenomenal. The entire staff was friendly and professional and the venue is obviously breathtaking. I can't believe how lucky we were to have our wedding at the Bourne Mansion and I truly cannot recommend it highly enough.
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June 2019 by Liz S.
My husband and I were married on May 18, 2019. Miriam was an absolute delight and was amazing to work with. She answered every. single. question I had, at any time of day! The day of the wedding came and the day worked out FLAWLESSLY, with no stone unturned. The bridal attendant, Catherine, was wonderful and made sure both bridal parties needed anything. Steve ran the day impeccably! Always making sure we were doing okay, as well as my parents. Everyone raved how great the food was and what a great time they had. We cannot say enough good things about Miriam, Catherine + Steve and cannot thank them enough for making our wedding day so special!
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April 2019 by Michelle L.
My husband and I got married at Bourne Mansion on 3/23/19 and I cannot put into words how perfect it was, but I will try. We visited a ton of venues, but knew from the beginning that Bourne was "the one." Venue - obviously beautiful, but we liked that it also has character and uniqueness - definitely not "cookie cutter." The backdrop is gorgeous and while we got married indoors (which worked out well), we made sure to take lots of pictures both indoors and outdoors. The ballroom is one of a kind and was plenty spacious for our ~200 guests. Food - delicious. They have a wide range of options for cocktail hour and we got a lot of compliments from our guests about the food (especially the filet mignon), some even saying it's the best food they've ever had at a wedding! I highly recommend adding on some sort of late night "snack." We had hot pretzels on the way out and they were a hit! Staff - spectacular. From the very beginning, Miriam was incredibly helpful and genuine. She guided me throughout the process and was very responsive to my many questions. I honestly couldn't have planned our wedding without her. When we met Steve (our maitre d), we knew we were in great hands. He helped set the run of show, kept everything running smoothly throughout the day and made sure we (and our parents) were taken care of the entire evening. My bridal attendant Catherine was excellent. She made sure I had everything I needed and helped with my dress, flowers, cake, etc. All in all, magical! We will never forget our perfect wedding day thanks to Bourne!
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October 2018 by Zachary A.
Attending a wedding for a friend at the Bourne Mansion and was in the bridal party. It is an absolutely stunning venue (a historic old mansion), food was delicious, and excellent service. The Maitre D' Steve was very friendly and seemed to run things perfectly. We really enjoyed our night and hope to be able to return for more weddings!
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September 2018 by Kendra K.
We were married at the Bourne Mansion on 8.31.18 and there are few words to describe how amazing our experience was aside from "outstanding" and just plain "perfect." I can confidently say that The Bourne exceeded expectations I did not even know I had. From my very first phone call, Miriam put me at ease and was ALWAYS available with quick and creative answers to my questions. Steve was magnificent as a maitre'd; he was attentive to me and to my husband as well as our parents. He was always right there to make sure we were comfortable and having the best experience possible. I have read reviews that Steve was too direct for some reviewers but you really need someone with his level of precision on your wedding day. You have so many emotions and thoughts going through your head, you NEED him to check on every detail to make the day what you really want it to be. The service was exceptional, the food was delicious, and all the staff were professional and friendly. I can't recommend this venue enough. I hope I am lucky enough to be a guest at a wedding here!!! Not one complaint or wish for something different. You will remember this experience forever.
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September 2018 by Erin M.
We were married at Bourne Mansion this July and could not have asked for a more perfect wedding day and venue! While I grew up on Long Island, I haven't lived there for several years and was nervous about planning a large wedding from out of town. Miriam was amazing from the moment we met and really made us feel confident that not only could we pull off planning an amazing wedding from out of town, but that she'd be there along each step to help make it as easy and stress-free as possible. She was extremely responsive to any questions we had and had some helpful suggestions throughout the day-of planning and vendor hiring process. I honestly don't know how we would have done everything without her guidance! I also have to give major kudos to the maître d - From the initial meeting with Steve about a week before the wedding, it was immediately evident that he's an expert in what he does and that we could trust him to make sure everything was run on schedule as planned. This was super important to us because we wanted to enjoy the wedding while also making sure we were eating, taking some evening pictures, tossing the bouquet, and having time to dance and spend time with family and friends instead of wondering what we should have scheduled next. We were never without food or a drink and honestly felt like royalty. His attention to detail is unmatched and it did not go unnoticed - as some other reviews have mentioned, I felt like he could read my mind with just a slight expression on my face from the other side of the room. Not only did we have an unbelievably beautiful wedding day that we'll always remember, but so many friends and family members came up to us the night of the wedding and the weeks after to communicate how much they loved the venue, the food, and Steve specifically. And of course, the venue itself is BREATHTAKING whether you're inside or outside. Our guests loved the included valet parking, being able to explore the gorgeous grounds before the ceremony and during cocktail hour, and getting to explore the different rooms as they opened throughout the evening. (While on the topic of different rooms, I would recommend adding the Viennese table during dessert if you can! The set-up is incredible and we received incredible feedback from our guests!) I could probably sit here and write several pages going over how pleased we were with everything leading up to the wedding and on the day-of. We simply can't thank the entire team at Bourne enough for providing an absolutely unforgettable wedding day. I'd recommend them a thousand times over!
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August 2018 by Susan S.
Went to a wedding Saturday night. Service staff=great! Food=great! Decor and view=spectacular! Highly recommend for any occasion.
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July 2018 by Mcguiree
My daughter was recently married at Bourne Mansion in Oakdale. This venue was simply exceptional! From the gorgeous outdoor ceremony on the great lawn overlooking the water to the beautiful mansion rooms and breathtaking ballroom, it was truly an incredible day! The bride and groom as well as myself all live out of state now, so planning a wedding back home in NY was quite a challenge. Without Miriam's guidance and support, I don't believe we could have pulled off such a perfect day. She is really terrific! Very responsive and so very helpful. Working with her was a pleasure. When the big day came, Steve was running the show. Could not have asked for a better person to be in charge. He is clearly the best at what he does. He ensured that everything ran like clockwork and everyone was having a great time, especially the bride and groom! I couldn't believe how many guests commented to me about how wonderful Steve was! All of the staff, food and drink were great! I highly recommend Bourne Mansion! The day was like a dream.... Thanks so much, Bourne Mansion!
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July 2018 by Andrew R.
When the Father of the groom hears comments like - it was the best wedding I ever attended. That covers it! The food , service and venue location are top notch. Working with Miriam and Steve was a pleasure.
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July 2018 by Annie N.
I recently attended a wedding at the Bourne Mansion it one of the best experiences I have ever had. The venue is absolutely beautiful and it's a perfect setting for a picture perfect wedding. The staff was friendly and attentive. They were right there to answer questions and refill our drinks. The bartenders were on point, friendly, and knowledgeable. STEVE ABOVE ALL WAS ONE OF THE GREATEST ASSETS TO THE EVENING. He runs a tight ship and ensured that everything was going smoothly and efficiently. He definitely added to the evening to make it a great experience for all parties involved. His hospitality and management took this event above and beyond. Here's to you Bourne Mansion and especially to you, Steve! Thanks for a great night!
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June 2018 by V M.
Living out of state had it's challenges when planning our wedding. We couldn't have chosen a better venue. There is nothing like the Bourne Mansion... in terms of interior and exterior aesthetics and service. The Bourne Mansion is special because it excels at everything. It is the ideal location where guests can enjoy the best of both worlds - the water from the patio and the classic rooms inside. From the beginning, we had an amazing experience with Miriam. She had wonderful suggestions that helped our wedding stand out. She was in constant contact and made sure to accommodate all of our needs. Steve was also instrumental in guiding us throughout the process to ensure our weddings stood out from others. He was most especially valuable on the day of the wedding because he made sure everything was executed seamlessly. He made sure my husband and I, as well as our families, were enjoying ourselves. It is obvious through the great work of the staff that the Bourne Mansion is the premiere location for weddings. We couldn't have asked for a better day and we thank them. We recommend the Bourne Mansion without hesitation!
